Assured Confidence: BlogBloghttps://www.assured-confidence.com/Fri, 29 Mar 2024 13:17:28 GMTurn:store:2:blog:post:7https://www.assured-confidence.com/having-the-incontinence-talk-with-parentsHaving the Incontinence Talk with Parents<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Having the Incontinence Talk with Parents</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">&nbsp;<img style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="/images/uploaded/Blogs/Daughter - Mother - Assistance 1_1000.jpeg" alt="" width="563" height="387" /></span></p> <p><strong><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt;">It Becomes the Duty of a Daughter or Son to Initiate the Discussion</span></span></strong></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Incontinence is a condition that is difficult for anyone to accept. Many seniors start by simply ignoring the issue. The sense of lost dignity can be very difficult for people that are still cognitively sound. How do you talk about this with anyone? The age group that seniors represent today, are just not comfortable with a discussion like this. Heck, you could never imagine a pair of men in this age group, playing golf together and having a conversation about the need to wear an adult diaper. That is why, often, it becomes the duty of a daughter or son to initiate the discussion with their parents.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">One of the most awkward conversations people have with their parents is the topic of bladder leakage or incontinence. It is very personal, can be embarrassing, and degrading for everyone. When incontinence occurs, the mess and smell can be a problem that if ignored, can become a huge issue. It is best to address it early, perhaps before someone even becomes incontinent. It is best to address incontinence head on. For the best results, you need to approach the topic carefully with empathy and with some planning. Remember, 1 in 15 Americans are searching for answers on how to deal with these issues, and incontinence is the second largest reason seniors leave their home for an Assisted Living Community.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Incontinence is a condition that is often difficult for a person to accept and deal with. Many seniors try to ignore this new development and carry on with their lives, but a head-in-the-sand approach usually draws more attention to the problem. There are ways to encourage a loved one to address this issue, but they require patience, understanding and a commitment to upholding your loved one’s dignity.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Tip: Strike the Word Diaper from Your Vocabulary</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">“My parent won’t wear adult diapers and it drives me nuts!”</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">This is a common complaint from family caregivers whose loved ones are suffering from incontinence, and I absolutely sympathize. However, one glaring piece of this sentence stands out: the word “diaper.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Figuring out how to talk to elderly parents about incontinence is difficult. The first thing we urge caregivers to do when tackling this sensitive topic is to think carefully about their word choices. Seniors often rebel against the word “diaper” as an adult of any age would, and for good reason. This term is typically associated with babies or toddlers who have yet to be toilet trained. What adult would take kindly to the word when it’s applied to them?</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Deal With Elderly Incontinence Denial Head On</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If your loved one is still cognitively sound, but simply prefer to live in denial about this new development in their health, try appealing to their sense of vanity. After all, vanity is what keeps us in denial about many age-related issues. Our culture is guilty of ageism to the extent that many people go to extremes to appear as though they are winning this losing battle against time.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Certainly, incontinence is very difficult to accept. However, if you, or a third party, can convince your mom or dad that it’s much more embarrassing to smell like urine than it is to wear proper protection, you may get somewhere. Promise to work with them to find a comfortable, absorbent, and low-profile solution that will enable them to maintain their dignity, extend their independence and improve their appearance. Incontinence frequently causes seniors to withdraw and become less active so they can avoid embarrassing situations, but it doesn’t have to be this way.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Woman to woman or man to man talks can have better results but not every family has that luxury. There are times when a son must talk to mom and a daughter has to talk to dad. In any of these situations, remember to be empathetic and understanding. This will help the parent be less embarrassed and more comfortable. You also want to pick a pleasant time to have the incontinence talk with your parent. Go for a walk in the park, sit on a bench outside, or do an activity that your loved one enjoys a lot like cards or a hobby. The goal is to create an environment that makes your parent feel secure and safe while discussing the topic of incontinence. Finally, you want to practice your tone and body language because they communicate 70% of your message. More than any words you say. Practice rehearsing to be sure you have everything right. You want to come across as calm and helpful. If you are frustrated and let it show, you may come across as angry and resentful. Practicing will help you present yourself in the best possible way.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt;">Focus on Making Incontinence a Normal Part of Aging</span></strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong><img style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="/images/uploaded/Blogs/Father - Son 1.jpeg" alt="" width="808" height="539" /></strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Begin with the end in mind by having a goal for the conversation. Speak with gentleness, compassion, and understanding when you talk to your parent about incontinence, so they do not feel ashamed. This will help your loved one feel more comfortable and less embarrassed. Open very gently and very slow so they do not feel threatened or defensive. Next tell them openly and honestly about your concerns. Address the things you have seen around the house. It is okay to be detailed about your observations of the nature and frequency of their accidents.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Hopefully, they will be responsive to your conversation about their incontinence. If they feel comfortable discussing it, they may continue the conversation with positive results. If on the other hand they deny the issue, do not give up – keep talking. Focus more on their symptoms and remember to be sympathetic to their situation and feelings of embarrassment. Continue to speak in a loving tone that makes them comfortable. Focus on making incontinence a normal part of aging. Above all else, do not make them feel ashamed or ostracized because of their incontinence.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Diminished Senses of Sight and Smell</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Our senses weaken naturally as we age and can result in a senior’s lack of awareness of how smelly and soiled their clothing and furniture is. Even if they acknowledge that they’ve had an accident, they may downplay it and continue wearing the same clothing (wet or dry) when it desperately needs to be laundered. Because they don’t realize the full impact that incontinence has on their personal presentation, they may truly feel that incontinence protection is unnecessary, especially if they don’t leave the house or have visitors over regularly.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">It’s a difficult subject to broach but informing a loved one that their body odor or the smell in their home has become offensive is sometimes the ticket to compliance with incontinence products. Some elders are truly embarrassed when they realize that others have caught onto the issue, they thought they had been successfully covering up. Just be sure to break the news gently and respectfully.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Depression Can Be a Contributing Factor</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If your loved one feels no embarrassment or concern over their smell or appearance, then you may have a more serious underlying issue on your hands. Unfortunately, loss of interest in personal care, socialization and other activities can be symptoms of depression.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Spotting depression in seniors is tricky, but social isolation, chronic health conditions and pain puts this demographic at a significantly higher risk. At the very least, depression screening should be part of your loved one’s annual visit to their primary care physician. If you notice the symptoms between visits, it’s important to make an appointment as soon as possible. Treating depression may help your loved one feel better and spur them to engage in personal care again, which, in turn, can boost their self-esteem and encourage them to venture out and socialize more.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Dementia Might Be the Culprit</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If denial, obliviousness and depression aren’t factors in your loved one’s refusal to partake in continence care, a dementia screening might be the next step. It doesn’t matter who tries to reason with them or how they go about it. If cognitive decline is a factor, a senior may no longer be capable of making sound decisions about wearing incontinence products, changing their clothing or other important self-care tasks. Make a doctor’s appointment for a full evaluation whenever new or worsening memory issues or <span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.agingcare.com/articles/alzheimers-disease-dementia-warning-signs-144253.htm" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;">signs of dementia</span></a></strong></span> appear. Early diagnosis is crucial for adequate planning and care.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Falls</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Did you know that incontinence is one of the most common causes of falls in older adults? A parent with incontinence is often rushing to the bathroom during a sudden urge to go, and in their rush, they can trip and fall. Make sure there is a clear path to the restroom, and that it is well lit for nighttime visits. Wearing disposable incontinence garments may protect your parent from potential falls as well as bathroom accidents.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Impact on Sleep</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Conclusion</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">It may take more than one conversation but when the time is right, start suggesting options. If your parent has not seen a doctor, that is a great place to start. The doctor can determine if there is an underlying medical issue causing the incontinence and offer treatment options. As well, doctors are great for introducing the topic of incontinence products like adult briefs and protective underwear.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>What is Assured Confidence™?</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Assured Confidence™ is a service program providing quality incontinence products and advice to people in need with discrete monthly delivery. <span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.assured-confidence.com/contact-us-2" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;">Contact Us</span></a></strong></span>&nbsp;for <span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.assured-confidence.com/sample-form-4" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;">FREE samples</span></a></strong></span>&nbsp;or for more information visit <span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/consumer-customer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;">Assured Confidence™</span></a></strong></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 22pt; color: #333399;"><strong>TIPS</strong></span></p> <ol> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Avoid using the word ‘diaper’ as it may cause a negative reaction. Instead use the term ‘adult brief’ or ‘protective underwear’. This is a more neutral way of talking about incontinence products.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If you bring a third party with you, decide in advance who will be the primary one to talk. A health professional, family member or your parent’s close friend are all good options.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Do not make the conversation about you and make the goal of the conversation about their needs.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Be sure your parent’s doctor is informed. </span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Be reassuring and tell them they are not alone with their incontinence.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Plant incontinence product samples in the bathroom and underwear drawer. Don’t forget to put a bucket in the bathroom for proper disposal.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Use Google to research cleaning ideas (carpet, furniture, clothing) to remove odors and stains.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Clear a path to the bathroom. This is important to prevent falls or accidents when rushing to the bathroom.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Help your parent get on a schedule of going to the bathroom after a specific period has passed. (For example, go every 2 hours.) &nbsp;This can minimize sudden rushes to the bathroom and help reduce accidents.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Walk them through how the incontinence products work. Be reassuring that it is easy and will prevent accidents from being discovered because the product catches everything. (View our <span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.assured-confidence.com/assured-confidence-sizing-chart" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;">sizing chart</span></a></strong></span>&nbsp;to ensure a proper fit.)</span></li> </ol> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva;">&nbsp;</span></p>urn:store:2:blog:post:6https://www.assured-confidence.com/skin-care-for-incontinent-is-more-important-than-you-may-thinkSkin Care for Incontinent is More Important Than You May Think<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #333399; font-size: 24pt; font-family: verdana, geneva;"><strong>Cleanse, Moisturize, Protect and Treat</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #333399; font-size: 24pt; font-family: verdana, geneva;"><strong><img src="/images/uploaded/Blogs/Father - Daughter 1_1000.jpeg" alt="" width="573" height="466" /></strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 14pt; color: #000000; font-family: verdana, geneva;">People with incontinence and their caregivers inherently know that caring for your skin is just as important as preventing leaks. However, you may just not know where to start. It is not the same as taking care of younger skin, the fragile skin of older adults does not heal on its own as easy. There is a correct regime of Cleanse, Moisturize, Protect and Treat that is commonly referred to, and we will take you through the steps in this blog article.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt; color: #000000;">Adult absorbent products such as pads, pullups, or briefs with tape-tabs are great at preventing leaks, but poorly made absorbent products trap moisture close to the skin, which can become a problem if it’s not taken care of right away. Built-up moisture can cause skin irritation around the buttocks, hips, and genital areas. Redness, peeling, itchy skin, yeast infections and even urinary trach infections can occur when you sit in a wet absorbent product for too long.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>How to Prevent Skin Issues</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">The first step in caring for your skin is to prevent any irritation from happening to begin with. This means following a regimen of <strong>cleansing</strong> the area, <strong>moisturizing</strong> the skin, applying <strong>protectants</strong> and if necessary, <strong>treating</strong> any issues.</span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Change your product as often as possible to prevent any urine or stool from being trapped close to the skin for a long period of time</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Clean and dry the area immediately after urinating or having a bowel movement</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Use a mild soap that won’t irritate your skin</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-size: 24pt; font-family: verdana, geneva; color: #333399;"><strong>Skin Care Products</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Most people assume that regular cleansing with soap and water is all that is needed to protect the skin and prevent odor. This is simply not true with incontinence. Special cleansers which remove urine and stool without the need for scrubbing and still maintain a high level of moisture in the skin, no matter how often they are used, are important for caring for the skin of people with incontinence.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>List of Skin Care Products:</strong></span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/adult-wipes-curity" target="_blank"><span style="color: #333399;">Wet Wipes/Wash Cloths</span></a></strong></span> - A non-irritating cleanser in handy, disposable wipes. Gently dissolves irritants.</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/perineal-wash-dermarite" target="_blank"><span style="color: #333399;">Perineal Cleansers</span></a></strong></span> - Soapless, non-irritating cleansers gently dissolve and remove feces and urine. Many contain deodorizers in their formulas. Specifically, seek out perineal cleansers formulated for delicate skin.</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><img style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="/images/uploaded/Blogs/Moisturizer_1000.jpeg" alt="" width="709" height="197" /></span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/skin-care-4" target="_blank"><span style="color: #333399;">Moisturizing Creams / Lotions</span></a></strong></span> - Protective moisturizer formulated, especially for the perineal area. Lanolin or dimethicone are key ingredients to look for in moisturizers.</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/skin-care-4" target="_blank"><span style="color: #333399;">Barrier Creams / Ointments</span></a></strong></span> - Barrier creams are designed to protect the skin from irritation caused by stool, urine, or excessive moisture. It is best to AVOID products that contain petrolatum, these products do not work well with absorbent products like pads, pullups or briefs with tabs and can cause additional issues by clogging the absorbent product and not allowing it to absorb as it was made for. Look for products contain lanolin or dimethicone, caregivers of individuals at risk of skin breakdown from pressure ulcers due to immobility should pay extra attention to consistently apply these products.</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/skin-care-4" target="_blank"><span style="color: #333399;">Film Forming Skin Protectants</span></a></strong></span> - Film-forming skin protectants are packaged in the form of wipes, aerosol spray, pump spray, and applicator sponges. When the film dries, a clear invisible barrier is left to protect the skin from irritation.</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/antifungal-cream-dynarex-1-tube" target="_blank"><span style="color: #333399;">Antibacterial / Antifungal Creams</span></a></strong></span> - Cream application with non-prescription strength ingredients such as nystatin or miconazole should be used to topically treat bacterial or fungal skin infections.If bacterial infection occurs, antibiotics applied to the skin or taken by mouth may be required to heal the irritation.</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><br /> When using any of the products above, keep in mind that you must still clean the area each time you urinate or have a bowel movement. You can reapply the products after the area has been fully cleaned and thoroughly dried.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><img style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="/images/uploaded/Blogs/Daughter - Mother 2_1000.jpeg" alt="" width="512" height="341" /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>When to Seek Help</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If you start to have problems with your skin and the issue doesn’t clear up, see your doctor immediately, the problem can accelerate quickly and cause significant issues that can be hard to treat. Skin issues might include:</span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Your skin is severely irritated and doesn’t seem to be getting better</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">You develop an itchy, red rash</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Your skin is peeling</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Your skin is raw and tender</span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Tips for Caregivers</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If you’re caring for a loved one who has incontinence, and especially if they are bed-ridden or in a wheelchair, be sure to take special measures to protect their skin.</span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Most people and their caregivers don’t realize the importance of a healthy, well-balanced diet that contains enough calories and protein that helps keep you and your skin healthy. It plays such an important part that sometimes causes a downward spiral in maintaining healthy skin and the body’s ability to fight issues.</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Change their position often - in a bed, or in a wheelchair - to avoid getting bedsores. You also may want to try using pillows or pads to reduce pressure on certain parts of the body where bedsores may develop</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Clean any soiled underwear and clothes, absorbent products, bed sheets, chairs, or blankets right away</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Wash and dry the pelvic area after each void</span></li> </ul> <p> </p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Be diligent about changing absorbent products regularly. Use a timer if helpful, a good rule of thumb is every two hours.</span></li> </ul>urn:store:2:blog:post:4https://www.assured-confidence.com/parent-with-incontinence-you-are-not-aloneParent with Incontinence? You Are Not Alone<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Parent with Incontinence?&nbsp;You Are Not Alone!<br /><br /></strong></span></p> <p><strong><img style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="/images/uploaded/Incontinent Parent Blog Image 1 - 11-19.jpg" alt="" width="597" height="336" /><br /></strong></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If you have a parent who is incontinent, you might feel like you are in uncharted territory, but do not feel alone. It is a challenge few expect to deal with as their parents age. But neither you, nor your parents, should feel embarrassed about this issue that many seniors will face for one reason or another. Many caregivers are challenged with the options and issues before they find solutions that can help them and their parents through this journey. Remember that incontinence is very often a treatable condition, so always speak with your parent’s doctor to uncover the underlying cause. In this article you will find tips on:</span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Having “the talk” with your parent about incontinence</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">The importance of speaking with your parent’s doctor about the issue</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Different products for management of incontinence</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Foods, drinks, and medication that can worsen incontinence</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">The importance of proper skincare for your parent with incontinence</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">How to toilet regularly to reduce the incidence of bathroom accidents</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Tips on cleaning up after an accident</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">The connection between incontinence and dangerous falls in seniors<br /><br /></span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>“The Talk”</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Most of us have had an experience at some point or another that allows us to understand just how embarrassing incontinence can be. It’s not surprising then that a parent with incontinence may try to hide or deny bathroom accidents. Additionally, we find that the generation of seniors that are at this age now, find this type of discussion with anyone very difficult. To help you deal with this delicate topic, here are some helpful tips.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Be empathetic and reassuring</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Reassure your parent that&nbsp;many people go through this. Incontinence is common! According to the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #333399;"><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_03/sr03_036.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399; text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Center for Disease Control (CDC)</strong><strong><sup>1</sup></strong></span></a></span></span><strong>,</strong> 50.9% of persons aged 65 and over living at home reported having some form of incontinence. Offer to help your parent speak to their doctor and search for solutions for their incontinence. You can reassure your parent that liners and disposable underwear are available in a cloth-like material, and there are a few well performing products that are not bulky, so only the two of you will know the difference. We at First Coast Medical Supply offer&nbsp;<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span style="color: #333399;"><a href="https://www.assured-confidence.com/sample-form-4" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399; text-decoration: underline;">samples</span></a></span></strong></span> of all these products to try before you purchase. The average person spends $150 before they decide on the products they like. Why spend the money when we provide&nbsp;<span style="color: #333399;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.assured-confidence.com/sample-form-4" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399; text-decoration: underline;">free samples</span></a></span></strong></span> to try different types and sizes of products? Explain that wearing protective products can help them feel more confident in case of an accident. Many seniors begin to avoid social settings, it may even help them be more active as well.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Use some light humor</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Incontinence is a common problem, so why not talk about it and maybe even laugh about it a bit? If you can speak about it lightly and openly, you can help maintain your parent’s dignity and everyone will be more comfortable.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Call in help</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">If you have tried to talk casually to make your parent comfortable on this issue, but they still seem closed off, try bringing someone else in to help. A parent with incontinence might find it difficult to discuss this issue with their children. Perhaps a trusted friend or doctor&nbsp;can help. Many seniors have developed a significant level of trust with their doctor over the years. Also, we at First Coast Medical Supply help customers with these discussions all the time, most people are very comfortable talking to us about these issues, because it's what we do every day. Daughters may note that some men may feel more comfortable talking with another man about this sensitive topic. You can find some important information on helping men address their incontinence in this <span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #333399;"><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/07/31/male-incontinence_n_913368.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong>Huffington Post article</strong></span></a></span><strong><sup>2</sup></strong>. Remind your parent that incontinence is a common medical condition, so the doctor will be comfortable discussing it.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;"><em>*More on the importance of <strong>keeping your parent’s doctor</strong> <strong>informed</strong> below.<br /><br /></em></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Say it again: You’re not alone!</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">It is always good to reassure your parent that they are not alone in this issue - people of all ages experience incontinence challenges. Women often experience mild incontinence following pregnancy, and men who have had prostate surgery will often have these issues too. If you have a personal story to share, go for it. When taking your parent to the grocery store or local pharmacy, show them the aisle for incontinence supplies, you can point out the huge quantity of products in this aisle as an example of how many people are using them. It is important to note that the products found at most drug or grocery stores are lower quality than what First Coast Medical Supply carries, or other products you can find online. Many times, they are more expensive, product for product, than the better-quality products as well. Depends spends millions of dollars every year on advertising to help introduce your parents to disposable protective underwear, but when it comes to quality compared to other products available, Depends just don't measure up. </span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Ask your parent if they have ever noticed someone wearing disposable underwear or liners. Probably not, so why would someone else notice theirs?<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Vocabulary</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">What’s in a word? With incontinence, the words you use can preserve a sense of dignity! Using the words “briefs”, “disposable underwear”, “liners”, “shields”, or “throw-away underwear” can make the conversation much more relaxed.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Plant some samples</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Make it easy to choose protective liners and underwear by planting them in convenient areas. Fold some cloth-like disposable underwear and leave them in an underwear drawer, and in the bathroom. Place a bucket with a lid in the restroom for disposal. Remember that you can disable the flushing handle of the toilet to prevent clogging if you find this is an issue.<br /><br /></span></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><img style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="/images/uploaded/Incontinent Parent Blog Image 2 - 11-19.jpg" alt="" width="616" height="471" /></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Solutions</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Once you’ve had the talk and your parent is ready to take on their incontinence issue, here are some solutions to help you work together to overcome or control bathroom accidents.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>First: Speak to the doctor</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Often times incontinence is caused by an underlying condition that can be managed or is temporary! That is why it is so important to speak with your parent’s doctor. A doctor will help you to better understand why your parent is having this issue, and to learn what solutions are available. See a list of conditions that may cause incontinence on the <span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #333399;"><a href="https://www.urologyhealth.org/urologic-conditions" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong>Urology Care Foundation</strong></span></a></span><strong><sup>3 </sup></strong>website, a trusted source of information to help you and your parents with incontinence issues.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Toileting</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Establishing a regular toilet schedule can decrease the incidence of accidents, making your parent with incontinence feel happier and more secure. If your parent has dementia, take them to the restroom at intervals even if they say they don’t need to go. Check out this article on training the bladder on the Urology Care Foundation website. Remember - men can do Kegel exercises too!</span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #333399;"><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 11pt;"><a href="https://www.urologyhealth.org/living-healthy/kegel-and-pelvic-floor-exercises" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399; text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Kegel and Pelvic Floor Exercises</strong><strong><sup>4</sup></strong></span></a><br /></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Supplies&nbsp;</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Once you have discussed your parent’s treatment with their doctor, the doctor should set a treatment plan. Sometimes the doctor will recommend incontinence products. There are a variety of protective disposable products to choose from:<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Disposable undergarments</strong></span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">A wide variety of products are available. Both men and women often find that using a combination of products offers them the flexibility they require for a range of daily activities and circumstances. The combination of products that works best will depend upon your parent’s lifestyle and personal circumstances.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Please look at all the product groups available, you will find that some products are unisex while others are suitable for only women or only men.</span></li> </ul> <p style="padding-left: 60px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt;"><strong>We have developed a tool to help you choose the right product.<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #333399;"><br /><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/let-us-help-you-choose" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399; text-decoration: underline;">Let us help you choose.</span></a></span></span></strong></span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Absorbent pads are one of the most commonly used type of product for containing leakage, especially for women, although other female devices do exist, they are less widely used. Look at what is available, you may find that they will work for your parent.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Men have several types of devices available to them and many men find devices to be more acceptable than pads. Again, using a combination of products often works best for depending on your lifestyle.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">There is more research evidence for some products than for others and this has been referred to where it exists. Liners, pads, and shields can be used for light to moderate leaks. For moderate incontinence products specific to women and men or unisex protective underwear may be suitable. For full accidents or if a parent with limited mobility, a disposable brief will provide better protection.<br /><br /></span></li> </ul> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Mattress and chair protection&nbsp;</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">“Chux” or “bedpads” are disposable or liquid resistant fabric squares that can be placed on the bed, chairs, in the cars, or anywhere else to protect surfaces from leaks.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Washable waterproof mattress protectors are large sheets that cover the mattress. Mattress protectors and reusable or disposable bedpads can be placed under the bedsheets for comfort. If soiled, the sheets and mattress protector can be washed, or disposable bedpads can be thrown in the trash.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Bedside commode</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">A bedside commode is small toilet with handrails that can be placed near the bed of a parent with limited mobility, who may have trouble making it to the restroom. There are a variety of tips available online for odor control with a commode, such as using a terrific product by Clorox called <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #333399;"><a href="https://firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/urine-remover-clorox"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong>Urine Remover</strong></span></a></span></span> that does not contain bleach.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Skin Care</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Skin care is very important in older adults with incontinence issues, as waste left on the skin for extended periods of time can cause irritation, skin breakdown, and urinary tract infections. If you have a parent with incontinence, remember the&nbsp;four&nbsp;steps of skin preservation: <span style="color: #333399;"><a href="https://www.firstcoastmedicalsupply.com/skin-care-for-incontinent-is-more-important-than-you-may-think" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong>Cleanse, Moisturize, Protect and Treat</strong></span></a></span><strong>.</strong> Use a pH-balanced cleanser, a vitamin-packed moisturizer, a gentle touch, and apply a barrier cream as a final step. The barrier cream acts like a barrier between the skin and the environment around it, preventing the breakdown of sensitive skin. Make sure they are changing their products regularly!<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Fluid intake, Diet and Medications</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Your parent’s diet can have a large impact on frequency of urination. Some medications will also increase the need to go, including Alpha-blockers; brand names Cardura, Minipress, Hytrin; generic names doxazosin mesylate, prazosin hydrochloride, terazosin hydrochloride.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Read this handy article to understand how your diet affects bladder control:</span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 11pt; color: #333399;"><strong><a href="http://www.shieldhealthcare.com/community/incontinence/2015/10/27/how-diet-affects-bladder-control/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399; text-decoration: underline;">How Diet Affects Bladder Control<sup>5</sup></span></a><br /></strong></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Cleanup</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">There are several products that can be used to clean fabrics after an accident, including pet stain removers, Oxyclean, and dilutions of vinegar and hydrogen peroxide. Here’s a handy guide on <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.howtocleanthings.com/how-to-clean-urine/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="color: #333399; text-decoration: underline;">How to Clean Urine</span></a></strong></span></span> from HowtoCleanThings.com.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>Falls</strong></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt;">Did you know that incontinence is one of the most common causes of falls in older adults? A parent with incontinence is often rushing to the bathroom during a sudden urge to go, and in their rush, they can trip and fall. Make sure there is a clear path to the restroom, and that it is well lit for nighttime visits. Wearing disposable incontinence garments may protect your parent from potential falls as well as bathroom accidents.<br /><br /></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 24pt; color: #333399;"><strong>References:</strong></span></p> <ol> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt; color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_03/sr03_036.pdf"><span style="color: #333399;">Prevalence of Incontinence Among Older Americans, Vital &amp; Health Statistics, US Department of Health and Human Services, Centers for Disease Control, Series 3, Number 36, June 2014.</span></a></strong></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt; color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/male-incontinence_n_913368?guccounter=2"><span style="color: #333399;">14 Tips For Dealing With Male Incontinence, HuffPost, By Health.com, 07/31/2011</span></a></strong></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt; color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.urologyhealth.org/urologic-conditions"><span style="color: #333399;">Urology Care Foundation Website, Urologic Conditions</span></a></strong></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt; color: #333399;"><strong><a href="https://www.urologyhealth.org/living-healthy/kegel-and-pelvic-floor-exercises"><span style="color: #333399;">Urology Care Foundation Website, Kegel and Pelvic Floor Exercises</span></a></strong></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: 14pt; color: #333399;"><strong><a href="http://www.shieldhealthcare.com/community/incontinence/2015/10/27/how-diet-affects-bladder-control/"><span style="color: #333399;">How Diet Affects Bladder Control, Shield HealthCare, Amy Long Carrera, MS, RD, CNSC, CWCMS, Registered Dietitian Nutritionist, 10/27/2015</span></a></strong></span></li> </ol>urn:store:2:blog:post:5https://www.assured-confidence.com/httpswwwassured-confidencecomare-you-confused-between-brief-or-protective-underwear-acConfused Between Brief or Protective Underwear?<p><strong><span style="font-size: 11pt;">Brief vs Protective Underwear?</span></strong></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;">There is a wide misconception regarding the styles of incontinence products, and this article will clear it up.  In incontinence terminology, a <strong>“Brief”</strong> is an <strong>OPEN</strong> style product with Tape-Tabs that attach at the hips!  A pull-on style product that is stepped into and pulled up to be worn is a <strong>Protective Underwear,</strong> like traditional underwear.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><strong>Why Choose a Disposable Brief?         </strong></span></p> <p><strong> <img src="/images/uploaded/Brief for Blog.jpeg" alt="" width="450" height="427" /></strong></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><strong>Disposable briefs</strong> with refastenable tape tabs are ideal for adults with limited mobility and limited use of the toilet.  This is because people with limited mobility may not be able to stand or may have difficulty lifting their legs, making a pull-on style product difficult to change.  Disposable briefs can be changed while an individual is laying down and the tabs can be repositioned for a comfortable fit.  Additionally, disposable briefs are preferred by some with unique body shapes because the brief can be tightened to fit your shape.  There are other personal preferences of wearers that make disposable briefs a preference over Protective Underwear, such as a poly-backing on some briefs (be sure to read the product details), the ability for multiple fastenings, and typically higher absorbency.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><strong>Why Choose Disposable Protective Underwear?</strong></span></p> <p><strong><img src="/images/uploaded/Protective Underwear for Blog.jpeg" alt="" width="383" height="427" /></strong></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><strong>Protective Underwear </strong>or pull-on style incontinence products are quickly becoming the most popular style. They are ideal for adults who manage their own incontinence and want to wear a product that is similar to traditional underwear, in both look and feel.  Protective Underwear are also recommended for adults with Alzheimer’s disease because they are worn like regular underwear, triggering the muscle memory of pulling on underwear like they always have.  Plus, adults with Alzheimer’s may want to remove or pull at the tape-tabs on a disposable brief, which isn’t an issue with Protective Underrwear.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;">An added benefit of Disposable Absorbent Protective Underwear are the tear-away sides, making them easy to remove (just rip the sides down) and easy to dispose.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;">In summary, a <strong>“Brief”</strong> is more like a diaper, <strong>“Protective Underwear” </strong>are more like Pull-Ups   A disposable incontinence brief is a tape-tab style product that utilizes tabs to secure the brief closed.  If you are seeking a pull-on style product, you want to use Protective Underwear. Hopefully this helps clear the confusion around briefs vs protective underwear incontinence products.</span></p> <p><span style="font-size: 11pt;"> </span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong>Brief = Tape-tabs</strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong>Protective Underwear = Pull-Ups</strong></span></p>